A lot of my clients use cute little sayings to refer to their private area and also have secret personal codes that they use with their loved one's when they talk about coming to see me. One of my clients always tells her husband that she is going to H.O.P. Acronyms are often used but at first I couldn't figure out the connection between the v-j-jay and pancakes. She wasn't referring to the restaurant. She was referring to the House of Pain.