The more flexible you are, the easier it is for me to access the Brazilian area. If I comment on your flexibility, it is a sincere compliment, because you are doing me a tremendous favor and making my job easier. You should never think that I am insinuating you are a stripper or a porn star because I admire how well you are able to stretch. And if you find my compliment an insult, I apologize, but I do have to wonder if a part of you has a guilty conscious.