I just heard about a woman who didn't come to me for her first Brazilian, because she heard I was too aggressive. She went elsewhere.  After 45 minutes, she told them to stop.  She left very sore and unfinished. Although aggressive sounds like a negative word, it is actually a very complimentary term when referring to a wax technician. Do you really want a timid woman between your legs or someone who is confident that she'll do a kick ass job on you in a reasonable amount of time?