I love being a mom, but I have never forgotten how to be a woman. Make time for yourself and do something that makes you happy. I love to take baths, so I make it a priority to find time to soak in a hot, lavender scented bath.  Have your man take the kids for ice cream and forget about the dishes and the laundry. Fill a tub, light the candles, pour yourself a glass of wine, and take a minute to breath.