Now that our guys know that we are more into warmth and comfort with our underwear, I hope they can be more understanding why we don't parade in sexy lingerie 24-7. We don't ask them to stick a string of lace up their ass, so why should we? I had to laugh, however, when a client told me that she has a pair of old, comfy pajamas that she wears that indicates to her husband that he ain't getting any. He calls them the d-erection jammies.